Sometimes ...the
*Startling Stall* can be symptomatic of a
Failing Ignition Switch... and since you used the expression
"WE"... it could be caused by the pendulum-like action of a Wife's Heavy Laden Key-Chain responding to the gyrations and motions cause by the Angular Momentum of Starts, Stops and Left & Right Turns...variably tugging upon it... and at some "Key" positions...managing to break the expected solid Electrical Connections afforded by the IGN Switch.
This will probably turn out to be nothing... but just in case it is involved... Visit THIS Thread in another Site Forum to bone up on the topic, At this point in your investigation...looking at things as arcane as this might prove useful under the circumstances.
Before you throw parts at it, I would look into a data logger or bluetooth dongle and data logger app. Have your wife tell you the exact time it happens and see what the logger shows. I would hesitate to replace any OEM part with something new (even OEM replacement). You could be introducing a...
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Also...as per
@movietvet 's observation about the MAF issues... I would re-visit the MAF with CRC MAF Spray Cleaner -=
ONLY =- and a Tooth Brush and Clean It AGAIN.... Especially if the Air Filter was NOT changed when the New MAF was installed as Chunks of Junk can constantly break loose from a compromised Dirty Air Filter or Inlet Tube that is left open to ambient, unfiltered air ...and collect HERE on these Two Tiny Resistors (Red Arrows) :
You know this already, but it deserves repeating for those who need to know it:
The
Mass Air Flow Sensor (MAF) includes the means to both measure the incoming Air Temperature AND IT WEIGHS every Gram of Air coming inside the Throttle Body so the Air to Fuel Ratio remains as close to 14.7 to 1 as possible ALL the Time...otherwise, the PCM won't understand and...THE ENGINE CAN SUDDENLY STALL or at the very least...cause it to drop into LIMP MODE (Reduced Power)...
.Very, Very SUDDENLY.
One Last Thought... Check the MAF Harness to CONFIRM a reliable 5 Volt DC Sensor Reference Voltage as THIS failure point can cause the MAF to fail if the wiring harness between the PCM and the MAF is Sketchy using this reference voltage can also cause the Engine to Stumble and Stall.
Suspect a possible Rodent Depredation Under Hood Problem and scour the harnesses and Plastic Connectors with a Bright Flashlight, Eye Protection, N-95 Mask and M11 Nitrile Gloves while searching for any signs of Chewed Wiring, Mouse Feces and Rodent Nesting artifacts.
The protective gear can keep you from becoming infected with Rodent Borne HANTA Virus carried on Airborne Dust covered with Virus particles that can infect the lungs. It has a 40% Mortality Rate...so BE CAREFUL!